Tuesday, December 31, 2013

2014: Man in the mirror, make a change?

 Ack, New year's resolutions.  I have many areas targeted for improvement, especially riding-wise -- but here's a "big picture" sort of resolution...

While it may not seem like I have an ounce of self-reflection in me, I do think about self-improvement. I'm not the person I would like to be. Most mornings, I start out with an idea in my head of the ideal me -- basically, a good person, 100% of the time. By the end of the day, looking back, the mistakes are what I remember.

Michael Jackson and I...
Some mornings Bob is up when I'm getting ready for work. Like all couples, we have schtick, and one of ours is to give mock pep talks to each other -- who can spout off the most platitudes, like "there's no 'i' in team," etc.  As I gather up my purse and cellphone and head out the door,  part of the ritual is for me to start (badly) singing "Man in the Mirror" à la Michael Jackson, while Bob does what (he thinks are) MJ moves and gestures.

"Take a look at yourself and make a change!"

This is why we don't have surveillance cams in the house. It would be too embarrassing.




Monday, December 30, 2013

PMU horse at Grand Prix

I love reading success stories like From the kill truck to to Grand Prix National Championship. Candace Platz's horse Flynn was a PMU rescue, and look at them now! He's one of those one in a million horses that went from untrained to Grand Prix in three years -- because he was smart and willing. What a blast to read!


Sunday, December 29, 2013

Prince does dressage!

Well, it happened. Danielle Heijkoop & Kingsley Siro rode their Grand Prix freestyle to music to Prince music -- BEFORE Ri and I got a chance to! Dammit. Well... I can take some consolation in that IMHO, while the performance was nice, the music part was not done that well. It lacked that Prince quality. The first few songs were recognizable, but the canter work? Not sure what song that would have been -- it may not have been Prince (anyone know?). There are plenty of Prince songs that are suitable for canter. Aren't there? I might have suggested Kiss...


A word about the Dutch

Now, I am not an expert, but in looking at the videos of the Dutch team, I'm feeling... Well... To be honest...

 THEY LOOK SHORT IN THE NECK!

 There I said it.

 What do you think?


Saturday, December 28, 2013

Dear marketers: Open letter

Like a lot of bloggers, I'm often contacted by companies or individuals with proposals for promoting their products -- books, tack/equipment, clothing, stores, you-name-it -- on my blog.  Some want ad space, some want product reviews, some offer to write me an article. I'm not exactly ad free, but at the same time I don't do the blogging thing to make money -- I do it to write, for fun. I do blog about products I like, and love to hear that my blogging has increased product sales.

I suppose this is uncommon and my blog philosophy is a little unique. Maybe that is why product promoters and ad professionals seem to have misconceptions about what I, and the BTB blog, will do for them.

How it works
If I can get behind a product or service, I will feature it on my blog, for free or sometimes for compensation, depending on what the promoter wants. Recently I accepted "free" stuff from a browband maker and a stuffed sock pony craftsperson. I would have blogged their product anyway, and in fact the "gifts" came unexpectedly after the blog had been published.  Most often I promote products and services on my own, with no prompting or contact with product sellers -- because I like them.  I am particular about what I want my blog to promote, and I would like my readership to benefit in some way -- love to give away free stuff!

 If you want "product placement" of any sort on BTB, here are the guidelines:
  • Have a good product. If I know your product from personal experience or by reputation, great. If I don't, give me a chance to get acquainted with it. Often the web site info is sufficient; sometimes samples are possible. If I'm really interested I may buy the product to try it.
  • Offer a giveaway to the readership. This is really important, and fortunately people are usually happy to do this.
  • THIS IS A BIGGIE. Don't assume that I'll jump at the chance to hand over my blog to you to promote your stuff. The assumption is that any blogger would jump at the chance for content of any kind, even search engine optimized and product-focused content masquerading as a real article.
On this last point, I am fairly grumpy. I just don't get the  viewpoint that I should be willing to hand over my readership and blog space  to an advertiser who supplies a search engine optimized ad masqerading as an article. The analogy I like to give is that after a huge snow, you go out and shovel your little on-street parking place -- and after you finally finish it and are ready to park, some gibroni tries to park in your space. Get you own blog.

My one bad experience with "giveaways"
In the almost five years of blogging, people have been a joy to deal with. Happy, positive, appreciative, and generous. Till this year, that is.

Early in the year I had an experience where someone approached me and asked for a product review on my blog. They sent me a lovely sample (more than we agreed upon) -- and I liked the product. I wrote a positive review with my own pix of Riley, and they then asked to see the review prior to publication. Then the guy wanted changes --  didn't like the Riley photos (Whaattt???!!!) and  sent his own photos that I was supposed to use. Sent his content too. In the end he was basically asking me to use his content and photos -- an ad. I ended up trying to meet the guy half-way and neither of us was that happy. The whole experience was way more hassle than it was worth, and it was a lesson learned.

From now on, I will be more specific about what I will and won't do, up front. Folks, if I feature a project, please rest assured that I like it. And in the case of these latest blog articles, I absolutely adore the products. I'm just sayin'.


Friday, December 27, 2013

HorseJunkiesUnited.com: On video at last!

I saw them compete at Devon, but I didn't get it on video the first year, and this year was not their best perfomance. I'm thrilled to finally see this video from HorseJunkies.com. Anyone else recognize the McGarrigle sisters singing Leonard Cohen's Hallelujiah  Not to mention Joni Mitchell and Neil Young. A moving tribute to Canadian singer/songwriters, by a horse and rider pair showing such harmony...


Thursday, December 26, 2013

EA Cygnus and Mimi Stanley


EA Cygnus, here ridden by Mimi Stanley, passed away December 10 while undergoing colic surgery. He was an Arabian Sport horse owned by Mimi and her family. Their last test was in December of this year. He was 23. RIP Cygnus...


Wednesday, December 25, 2013

Happy Holidays! New Yorker 1949

I love the New Yorker, and over the years they have featured horses on the cover. I'm going to share some of the ones I've found periodically. Love this one.


Tuesday, December 24, 2013

Riley and I, Dec. 22

I'm finding that while Ri is always a good boy, he is not always a good boy in the same way. Saturday he required almost no leg and all I had to do was concentrate on staying in balance with him, and softening my hands so that he could relax more through the poll and jaw. I'm getting a better understanding of how my "fixed" hands and arms make him tense/stiff in the jaw. When I do it right, he is forgiving, as always.

Sunday, the day of this video, he was not quite as sharp to the aids and it was trickier to get the forward without getting too unbalanced and fixed in the jaw.

Ri is wearing his new browband from Woven Beaded Browbands on Etsy.com. This is my second one -- blingier than the first -- and I adore it. I'll be blogging photos soon...


Monday, December 23, 2013

Molokai, RIP

Last year (or was it the year before) I went to a Thoroughbreds for All celebration while we were at Rolex in Kentucky. At that event, I was able to see Molokai, who was happily retired at that farm. He looked wonderful.

He passed quietly in his pasture a few days ago. Eventing Nation did a wonderful tribute to Molokai which you should read if you can.

I honor the horses of the past that have gone to the top of their sport, but sometimes when I watch the video footage I am left with the feeling that they were "a great horse for their time." Advances in breeding and training have raised the bar for equestrian sports, after all.

But what struck me when I saw this video footage is that this was a horse of timeless quality, in all three phases. Dorothy Crowell and Molokai clearly came to play. RIP Molokai.


Sunday, December 22, 2013

All I want for Christmas...

Is this.. But at $239 Euros, or $326, it ain't bloody likely. Available at Tailored Equestrian if anyone is thinking of the perfect gift to get me. ;-)


Saturday, December 21, 2013

PUVA no more

It's this bad...

Poor Bob. We are back to square one.

Recall that the narrow band UV chemo/light therapy was not really that effective, and while the Targretin in is making him 75% better he was not happy with that. He still has low level symptoms of rash and itching.

PUVA therapy
About ten days ago, he started PUVA treatments which involve a medication that makes you "soak up the rays" even more -- he had to wear sunglasses and stay out of the sun for 24 hours after treatment. The idea was to go after the disease with bigger guns, photochemically speaking.

A bad reaction
Something happened -- whether it was a reaction to the medication, or the light itself, or both, we don't know. His skin is just head to toe red, blotchy, raised, and angry. Last night he could not sleep -- it feels like a first degree burn, all over. Today is not much better. I think we are both worried that we've made the disease angry, and that we've lost the ground we'd made.

He was only at the beginning of treatment, and nowhere near the maximum dose of UV light.

His doctors have told him he cannot do light treatment any more. With a disease that has all too few treatment options as it is, this is bad news. 

I feel so bad for him.He may be starting Interferon soon. I'm not happy about this either -- more side effects. Wish us luck. This has been a disappointment.


Harv's holiday schedule

With Bob having snow tires and working second shift, I sometimes ask him to go visit Harv to check on him, offer treats, and hand walk. Many husbands would balk at this, but Bob does not seem to mind. We can have fun with it.

The other day he called me on his way down to see Harv -- he left voice mail on my work phone...

"So I'm on 309 at the stop light in Coopersburg, on the way to see the Vinkmeister. I hope I get in to see him today. Last time I was turned away..."

And a few moments later, he calls again, and I answer.

Bob: "I'm here at the barn, but his stall is empty. I can't be sure, but I passed a limo. You don't suppose..."

Me: "You know, during the holidays  he has been known to go into the city to shop."

Bob: "Oh, Yeah. Remember last time he ran up that big tab at Hermès. Anyway I left the apples in his feed tub..."



Friday, December 20, 2013

Congratulations Tracie from Missouri!

Tracie won the brown one -- you don't see it but on the other side is  a little red heart on the hindquarters. Oh So Cute! Thanks to Philomena's Friends at etsy.com/shop/PhilomenasFriends for sponsoring this angelic giveaway!



Wednesday, December 18, 2013

When I knew I was a dressage horse...

Thanks for sharing BTB reader Louise McGillivray! Click on the link below the photo. This video cannot be embedded...

 


Tuesday, December 17, 2013

Woven browbands: Huge holiday thumbs up!

This browband was just $65!
 I think that there is a "best kept secret" on Etsy.com. If you go to one web site today, go to:

Etsy.com/shop/WovenBeadsBrowbands 

and look at the gorgeous and unique beaded browbands. I got one for Riley and I'm enthralled! He wore it in our first clinic of the year, with Hank Hutson. I've ordered another one in jeweltones that I know I will love just as much.

What a great gift idea!
The pricing is reasonable, and these are well made -- backed with nylon (hidden) and made with poly thread, they will clean up easily and hold up well. Pat, the designer, notes that she has clients who have used theirs for years, and now that I own one I can see how they last so long -- good materials, tight construction!

 Please take a look at some of the shots of my browband and see the sizing hints at the bottom.






Some sizing hints may be appropriate, based on my experience with Ri:




  • Measure your browband by making it lie flat and measure the inside. 
  • Riley, my big warmblood, has a 16 1/2" leather browband. In the woven band, he wears a 15 3/4" or a 16."
  • Talk to Pat if you have any questions -- she is super helpful and wants everyone to love their browband. 



Monday, December 16, 2013

Tis the season (for Karaoke?)

I'm not a big fan of Christmas songs but oddly enuf I love "All I want for Christmas" by Mariah Carey. Bob would not tolerate my singing, and he is not fond of pop songs. Harv and Ri are up for anything. When no one is around I sing to Harv and Ri, "All I want for Christmas is (points to horse) YOU."

Here is Mariah (who also points while singing). The dress? Festive, but not flattering.


Sunday, December 15, 2013

Etsy Holiday Ideas: Saddle pads!


The ZIKY Boutique  was at Rolex one year, and I was impressed with the quality and beauty of these pads. They really are exquisite. The amber pad is $115, and the taupe one below is on Etsy at ZIKY Boutique for $129.


Saturday, December 14, 2013

Bob update: Future so bright

Not exactly Ray-Bans, but they'll keep his eyes safe
Bob has his Targretin, and the drug should be back in supply by the end of his 28-day cycle. Yeah!

 Bob's cancer is "75% pushed back" (says one doctor), or "on simmer" (says another). Bob is trying another form of radiation/light therapy, PUVA. He has to take a drug that reduces the body's ability to deflect radiation (my layman understanding) and then he gets zapped with full body radiation in a phone booth. Then, for 24 hours, he has to wear sunglasses and slather on SPF 50 lotion. And do it again two days later.

He drives at night and they tell him he must still wear glasses at night. Therefore, he can't drive to work and is taking two FMLA days a week. So far his employers have been supportive.

Personally, I'm not entirely on board with this new treatment--it's disruptive and uncomfortable. The UPenn doctor said that his current state of improvement is considered a success. But Bob wants to be free of symptoms, and you can't blame him for that.


Friday, December 13, 2013

Riley and his Honey Badger

This is a Centaur Honey Badger blanket. He will be warm. You can get one for your horse too, for a great deal, if your horse wears a size 81! See here...



Thursday, December 12, 2013

Horses and heat!

Centaur "Honey Badger" plaid turnout blanket
I could have sworn I blogged this already, but I can't find the post, and it's the time of year to feature my favorite obsession -- blanketing. Have you read the Equus Magazine article on What Horses Want? There was a study done on numerous horsey preferences, and they learned that -- shocker! -- horses do get cold, and they don't like it!

Researchers trained horses to break a light beam to turn on heat lamps in their stalls. They turned the lamps on quite a bit.

 I am pretty sure the horses were mares -- I'm guessing, based on the way men and women react differently to cold, that geldings might not turn on those heat lamps as often.

 In honor of this study, I bought Harv this Centaur "Honey Badger" plaid turnout blanket. The plaid looks nice in pix, but it is stunning in person. Grab one while you can!


Wednesday, December 11, 2013

Philomena's Friends: Awesomest giveaway of the holidays!

Giveaway update: Congratulations Christel Noble of Wisconsin for winning the Chronicle of the Horse scarf giveaway!


Find your own sock ponies here! www.philomenasfriends.etsy.com 


What a face!

NEW GIVEAWAY!
 I stumbled on these sock ponies from Philomena's Friends -- reasonably priced (most are $25), great colors, and adorable!

 About the owner
The shop owner, Pam, told me "I grew up with horses! My Grandad had the first Lipizzans in the US and started the registry so I grew up with dressage! You're really bringing back the memories for me..."

 How to win
To enter, all you have to do is comment on my blog or my Facebook page with a description of your favorite "horse toy" of your youth --and a way for me to contact you if you win. My favorite toy was was "Marvel the Mustang" -- a bouncy horse that I quickly outgrew to my dismay. What was yours?
Disclaimer: I can only ship to the U.S.

Note the wings, a nice touch
Love the pink!



Tuesday, December 10, 2013

Decking the Halls at the Kimmel and Smith estate


 
Conversation, December 8, Sunday Evening


Me: Where are the Christmas cards?


Bob: Downstairs


Me: Where downstairs?


Bob: In a box labelled "ammo and shoe laces."


Monday, December 9, 2013

Bluetooth: 3-year-old gelding sells for 1.3 million

See article on this gelding -- Bluetooth. The gelding, according to the article, has "a certain something" that apparently translates into big dollars. Here is footage of him at liberty and under saddle. Does he look like a million bucks to you?


Sunday, December 8, 2013

Dad getting bounced from Rehab (good news, bad news)

The rehab therapists feel that dad is no longer benefitting significantly from their services -- they are ready to stop his rehab, which means a) no more Medicare and b) we have to decide what's next for him in terms of living arrangements. We've filed an appeal to this decision, in part because one therapist does not agree, but also because we need time to figure out what to do. Home seems to dangerous, especially since he is constantly fighting the nurses to do things that are risky. But staying in the nursing home will be a tough sell.  Wish us luck, and in the meantime, enjoy this bit of "dad history." He was a talented athlete...

Mort Kimmel History!
================
Dad's High School Web site shares a bit of basketball history -- The Ladoga Canners:
 "The team of 1952-53 had the best record of Jack Hester's career with a 20-3 mark. Mort Kimmel shown in the middle scored 300 points his junior year and posted 514 for his career. Gerald (Red) Hart (on the far right) scored 510 for his 3 year career. Harley Barnard on the left was the playmaker, Fred Brennan (second from left) was the defensive star and Wally Lewellyn (second from right) was the all-purpose star. He could score, rebound and play defense."  
1951-52  
Dad is in the middle
2002
Dad is third from the right...


Thursday, December 5, 2013

Ripped from the Headlines! Another non-warmblood at the upper levels

If you're like me, you read the Chronicle of the Horse article about I've Been Ripped, the Paint/Arab competing at PSG, and thoughtL Must. Find. Video. Here it is. Congrats to Jessica Fussner for her success on this interesting and fun horse!


Woven bead browbands: A recommendation

I was happy to write this review in Horse Nation for Pat Sutherland's wonderful, unique browbands.
"Holiday shopping for horse people has never been easier–take a look at these unique browbands from Pat Sutherland, who has sites featuring her hand-woven creations on Etsy.com and Facebook.
They may look delicate, but they’re sturdy and meant for everyday use. Pat uses jewelry quality glass beads (over 1,000 for some designs!) attached to a polypropelene web backing, using UV ray resistant outdoor thread. The browband does not stretch or absorb water, and 1 1/2″ loops at each end fit most crownpieces. Pat has been doing these browbands for 20 years and she says, 'I’ve never lost so much as a bead.'
She has over 100 browbands on her site, and she does custom and charm-adorned browbands as well. Costs range from $60ish to $100. Christmas gift wrapping is free for the asking. If desired, mention it in the comments section of your order."









Wednesday, December 4, 2013

Update: Ebay, part V: Let the seller beware

 For background see parts I, II, and III, and IV of the Ebay Chronicles...

 Update: another expert
I'm sending the saddle to the only saddler on the East Coast that can open up the saddle without voiding the warranty -- in Connecticut. I'm afraid the buyer tried to widen the saddle, and there might be tree damage. We will know soon.

The history of the claim and documentation, in gory detail
As part of the dispute process, each party is asked to provide proof of their respective claims.

Paypal would not provide me a copy (!) of the buyer documentation, but I browbeat the Paypal rep into reading it to me and describing it. There were two docs...
  • The first document came from a NJ warehouse-type tack sales and consignment shop -- one that does not employ a saddle fitter. It stated that there were slits in the side under the stirrup bar that could cause the wool stuffing to fall out. The document was hard to read, hand-written, and  unsigned. They referred to my saddle as a County saddle -- not the correct manufacturer. It supported the view that the saddle was defective, and I don't think the Paypal folks "got it" that the person who wrote it was likely a salesperson, and not a saddle fitter. 
  • The buyer also had a letter from a woman who lives in NY -- no credentials -- saying that she has a BC Vinici that does not look like mine. Wow. Powerful! Paypal did not consider this document b/c it was not on letterhead.
My documentation
I provided three main documents:
  • One from Trumbull Mountain Saddlery, the distributor for Black Country. The co-owner, a saddle fitter,  typed up a description of the slits, confirmed they appear around where the buyer indicates they are, and confirms they are part of the saddle's design. Images of the slits on a brand new saddle were attached (I don't think Paypal accepts images). They signed it, provided their saddle fitting credentials, and provided an 800 number for additional questions. I can't thank Trumbull Mountain enough for providing this documentation, they had no reason to go to the trouble, other than being nice people.
  • One from my regular saddle fitter, who's been in the business for twenty-five years, stating pretty much the same thing and adding that he worked on the saddle new, and stated that it was in its original condition as late as August 2013. Thanks also to my saddle fitter.
  • I sent a document stating  my concern about their lack of communication and the length of time that elapsed from the receipt of the saddle to their complaint, twenty-five days. I shared that I felt this might be a case of buyer's remorse due in part by failure to ask reasonable and common questions about the saddle prior to purchase. I also expressed concern that they may have had the saddle modified or adjusted and been unhappy with the outcome.

Hard lessons learned
In short, Paypal has many of the controls over your money that a bank does, with none of the regulatory protections or accountabilities to their clients. As bad as my experience was, I go onto the Ebay and Paypal sites to read situations far more dramatic, and willfully scammy, than mine.

If you get in this situation, here are a few tips, per Paypal reps...
  • Documentation is discarded if it is not on company letterhead.
  • Paypal will be more likely to rule in the buyer's favor if you state you do not accept returns.
  • Photos are not used/allowed in the claims process.
  • Once damage is ruled upon, you can't escalate the claim or appeal on that damage.
  • Other tips for BUYERS are informative for sellers to know, see here.
More updates later. Thanks for listening.


Monday, December 2, 2013

Ebay IV: You picked the wrong rec room!

For background and updates, see parts I, II, and III, and V for the whole Ebay Chronicles...

Well folks, I'm just not gonna let this go. The buyers "won" their claim and returned my saddle. They said that there were slits above the stirrup bar which was the focus of their documentation,  and the discussion surrounded whether the slits were defects or part of the saddle design. In their original claim, though, they also said the seat was defective without saying how it was defective. I was ready to see weirdness beneath the saddle flaps, but SURPRISE!

The real damage was on the seat.

The day I received the saddle (tonight, 12/2) I filed an appeal. Amazingly, I still had all of the Ebay posting photos on my camera (I only used twelve of the twenty-five or so I took in the listing), and I had a great shot of the seat dated 8/25/13.  Compare the original condition to the condition it is in now, 12/2/13. They had from 10/21 to 11/27 to inflict the damage, but still I'm impressed. I'm not sure how this seat damage could have happened.

My appeal was closed in an hour, in the buyer's favor.

Paypal has a list of rules a mile long for appeals. They don't accept photos, and they don't accept appeals on damage that the buyer has identified. Small claims, here I come. I may not win this but I'm going to grind this into a fine dust while trying.

My saddle, Ebay posting photo taken 8/25/13

Saddle returned to me 12/2/13
So, I used the phrase "picked the wrong rec room," meaning I will take every available measure to appeal. Did anyone here see Tremors? The rec room scene has one of my favorite lines...



Scarf giveaway! A thank you to BTB'ers


Hi All, I've so enjoyed sharing experiences, gripes, videos, and what-have-you over the years. For the holiday season, I'd like to offer a special giveaway, related to two of my favorite things: The Chronicle of the Horse, and scarves.

The Chronicle sells this gorgeous scarf, and I've coveted it for years. Well, I've bought myself one, and they give you a deal when you buy two, and I can't think of a better way to give this scarf away.

It'll be a random selection from commenters on Facebook and this blog post, so fire up your pen and write something about your favorite holiday memory with horses.

Thank you all, and Happy Holidays!


Sunday, December 1, 2013

Part III: Ebay saddle sellers beware! The outcome

Me riding competing last year in my Vinici
See part I IIIV, and V for the whole saga! for background on the saddle debacle with Ebay, Paypal, and a buyer who I will refer to as *DB.

Paypal has decided I have to refund the money to DB.

DB has had my saddle for five weeks now. She claims my saddle, which was ridden in by me and my trainer up until it was sold, was said to be "unrideable" and "defective" due to slits under the flaps.

The slits she is referring to are either:
  1. The slits that came from the manufacturer
  2. Made by them or a fitter they used
I was present at every adjustment done to this saddle, which was flocked every six months since I've owned it, and it was last flocked in August  2013. That's how I know this.

What shape will it be in?
The ruling was made on November 27, and DB has until December 7 to provide a tracking number for the return. If the saddle does not come back in the condition it was sent, I can file a claim. Yippee. But if the saddle is not in the condition I sent it, you can bet that's what I will do. My biggest fear is that the saddle will come back damaged -- and if you think this is unlikely, read the horror stories from other Ebay transactions on the Ebay and Paypal communities.

Me in my saddle
I'm mystified
DB, or rather her boyfriend or SO, is a first-time Ebayer, and she had weak documentation, from what looks to be a sales person at a consignment shop; she did not communicate with me; she waited a month to file a claim. Me, I've been a good Ebay/Paypal citizen since 1999, with no negative feedback in 500 transactions, and my documentation is from the national distributor for the saddle manufacturer, and from a saddle fitter with 25 years experience. I go out of my way to make sure buyers will be happy with their saddle, and if you look at my interactions with potential buyers, you'll see that I tell people when I don't think the saddle is a good match. The notion that I would knowingly sell a defective saddle is what gives this situation emotional aspects.

The decision
Most people I've spoken to are astonished that buyers can claim "defect" after they've had the saddle a month.  Paypal has some policies that explain how this can happen...
  • Paypal does favor the buyer--now that I've read about changes in their policies over the years, e.g., removing the ability to give negative feedback to buyers, I am astonished at the policy of bias. 
  • Paypal does not put a lot of effort or scrutiny into reviewing claims. There is a thread on COTH where a seller actually had a claim reversed because, after hours of phone calls and correspondence, Paypal admitted that the claim reviewers had not reviewed the documentation.
  • Paypal does not look at the respective track records of the parties. My 500 problem-free transactions versus their one, tangled mess of a transaction where they did not follow standard Paypal practice were not counted.
  • Paypal does not honor the Ebay "no returns" policy that you might set on your Ebay post. 
  • Paypal does not let the seller see the documentation provided by the buyer.
  • Paypal does not accept photos as evidence. I suppose with Photoshop, this is understandable, but it makes it next to impossible to assess what is really going on.
Interestingly, another Ebay saddle seller had an experience very, very similar to mine. Read her story here, and think about the hours of time this dispute took.  For those who want the gory details, I will have a Part IV,. By that time, maybe I will have my saddle.